I hate flakes. And I am not talking about the kind that Head and Shoulders takes care of. I mean the people who cancel on your plans like 2 hours before you are supposed to go meet them.
You finally got the nerve up to ask her out, you worked out the date, and then she flakes! Argh! So is there anything you can DO about it? Well, as a matter of fact, there is. The thing is, most guys don't know this, and this is one of the FUNDAMENTALS of dating advice - how to AVOID the flake! So let's talk about how. One of the first things that you can do in order to avoid a woman flaking out on you is to tell her point blank that you HATE it when people do that. When you are setting up your date with her, whether it be a lunch date, coffee date or a genuine Friday night out, tell her, "Now listen, I REALLY hate it when people flake out on me, so I only want to make plans with you if you are CERTAIN you are going to be there." Many men are too intimidated to say something like that.
Or they think it is giving the woman an "out" and that if given a chance to run, she will take it. And it might happen. BUT - I would SO much rather have a girl flake on me at that stage than right before the date, wouldn't you? The thing is, when you say this to a woman, you are telling her that your time is VALUABLE.
It shows her that your TIME is more important to you than meeting her, which tells her in turn that your status is possibly a little higher than hers is. Next scenario- on the day of the date she calls you up and cancels. Never fear, because this situation is salvageable. This is a perfect opportunity to use a little "Cocky Funny" on her.
Say to her, "Well NICE, you FLAKE! Exactly HOW do you intend to make this up to me?" So here you have a great chance to bust her balls a little bit. Keep in mind, though, using Cocky Comedy, you have to keep it light enough to NOT let her think you are hurt in any way, or you will lower your Alpha-Male status in her eyes, which is a killer for attraction. David Deangelo has also mentioned that one way to keep a girl from flaking on you is to flake on HER first. For some reason, this works like a CHARM for him. It builds anticipation for the woman, letting her know that you are interested in her (because you set up a second meeting right then on the phone, but it makes her WAIT for it a little longer). So remember - most of the time, your trouble with the ladies is caused by your OWN behavior, or simply not knowing what to do to be proactive in a situation.
You'll never have NO trouble with women, of course, but you can drastically reduce your dump-rate by getting a little education when it comes to dating advice!.
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